Mosaic Harmony
by Mariah Burton Nelson  

When I wrote about process goals in January, I mentioned my goal of incorporating more teamplay (like teamwork but more fun) into my life. I'm eager to share an update that may inspire you to take action on your own goals.

By February, I had joined my first choir. I fell in love with the charismatic choir director, the other singers, the music (gospel) and the joy of harmonizing (or trying to) with 90 other people. What an ultimate team experience!

Many of you have heard me sing during keynotes. Two years ago, on a whim, I began writing original lyrics to popular tunes, then "demonstrating courage" by singing, alone or with audience members, on stage. Like many people, I used to believe I "can't sing," so it did take courage. But with practice, singing became easier. It's possible I also improved. Audience members started offering high praise, such as, "You're not as bad as you think."

Then the Washington Post published a list of local choirs. I planned to check out several. But after one evening with Mosaic Harmony -- an interracial, interfaith choir dedicated to "unifying the world one song at a time" -- I knew I was home.

Singing is an athletic experience, requiring physical fitness, good posture, steady breathing, and staying in "the zone." But it feels very new. I didn't even know until joining this group that I'm a tenor. (That does explain why it's hard to hit those high notes.) Singing is challenging for me, before we even get to that sway- and-clap thing. (Alas, coordination is no substitute for rhythm.)

But singing in a group -- especially a VERY GOOD group of "real" singers -- is REALLY FUN. We learn, we laugh, we're moved to tears -- and that's just rehearsal. (You try singing "Be Still and Know That I Am God" in four- part harmony with people of all ages and colors without crying.)

I tell you this story NOT in a shameless effort to fill the stands with fans when I perform with the group for the first time (though you're more than welcome if you happen to be in Arlington, VA, June 12) but as a way to illustrate that when you clarify what you want, and write it down, and tell other people, it often comes to pass. Before you know it, you're doing things you never dreamed you'd actually do.

I can't explain how it happens. (I suspect magic is involved.) I just know that it works -- and that (did I mention this?) it's really really fun.

Point #1: Whole groups of beautiful people are ready to make music with us as soon as we clarify what sort of experience we want to have, and with whom.

Point #2: The word "goal" sounds dull, but the experience of doing things you've always wanted to do is downright thrilling.

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